samedi 5 janvier 2013

All you need is a smile and a little bit of optimism

Recipe for Happiness


Thinking that you have failed is very depressing; going through a breakup or losing someone close to you. But while pain might strike you down, you should be able to withstand it to an extent and what does not break you only makes you stronger.
If you look at the successful and happy people in your life, you'll see that they have gone through a lot of drama and pain and immediately.
Faith is how they made it. Smiling at the next day and pretending that they know it's going to be better than the one before is how they made it. While you might believe in what you can hold with your hands, they believe in something different. They believe that happiness stems from inside the person and that is how they draw the smile on their faces.
The funniest people are usually the saddest, but you can never be funny while you are sad. You might do something funny, but even if you laugh for a moment, you will return to your sadness the next. You cannot be sad and still make those around you happy and you cannot make a good joke when you are not in the mood to hear one.
What you do to go through the next day with a smile on your face is not that complicated. Your mind complicates things even if they are simple because your mind is a very complex machine and while it might be able to complicate things, it can also simplify them. Instead of arguing about how this could have been, you could always make it be the next time and it's never too late, it's never the last chance.
Things happen for a reason, and while you might have failed an exam, what you are supposed to do is to get back up on your feet, work hard enough to pass the next one, even if it was a completely different exam. If you have gone through a breakup because your partner found someone else that they grew feelings for then you get back up, draw the charming smile on your face and go find something to do because love is going to find you. Cupid hits you when you least expect it and if you seek it, you will be seeking something that does not exist; something out of place.
Giving up is for the weak; for the ones who cannot stand on their feet when they are broken.
The recipe is simple:
1- Two cups of willingness
2- a pinch of courage
3- a lot of heat for motivation
You don't need anything to get back up except wanting to. Your feelings can easily be conquered and you are the one who is supposed to control that. You are the one who gets back up; you are the one who gets through with life.

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